I do confess that I have a thing for pretty girls, and that is a part of my heterosexual nature, but I also have a thing for talking to people and getting to know them.
One possible solution to the dilemma that women face in finding a partner is for them to take the bull by the horns. They can take a much more active approach to bypass that initial curb of physical attractiveness and just take the initiative to start those conversations that can blossom into something much deeper than a purely physical attraction.
When I have a chance to talk deeply with a woman, regardless of who initiated the contact, I often find them getting lovelier by the minute. One of my favorite song lyrics is from “Fair Game” by Crosby, Stills and Nash…
Take a look around you tell me if you see
A girl who thinks she’s ordinary lookin’ she has got the key
If you can get close enough to look into her eyes
There’s something special right behind the bitterness she hides
If you are one of those women who think you are too “ordinary lookin’” to attract a man, and you know a man who YOU are attracted to, then you might benefit greatly by creating an opportunity for him to get close enough to look into your eyes. You might find that you both find what you need.
As for me, I am still waiting for that diamond in the rough to find me…
